How KIND program helps Matt find his footing

For one 14-year-old South Australian, the past year has marked an important turning point - from struggling with harmful behaviours at home to building stronger relationships, confidence and a sense of purpose.

Through DHS’s KIND program, Matt* has started to reshape his future; not just for himself, but also for his family.

KIND is a therapeutic Youth Justice intervention program supporting young people and their families who are navigating complex challenges. Many participants have experienced trauma, family violence or are living with disability, and may use behaviours in their family or intimate partner relationships that cause harm.

Since launching in 2021, KIND has worked alongside 93 families, helping young people understand their behaviours, rebuild relationships and create safer, more positive futures.

A turning point

Matt* joined KIND in May 2025, alongside his mum, after being referred for his behaviour towards her and his younger siblings.

At first, life felt a bit uncertain for Matt* but with consistent therapeutic support and the introduction of a dedicated mentor in early 2026, things began to shift.

With a focus on positive male role modelling, his mentor worked closely with Matt* to build trust, establish goals and introduce positive routines, offering guidance and a steady, supportive presence.

Together, they focused on simple but meaningful changes through incentivised actions: getting to school every day, helping out more at home, and finding positive ways to spend time.

A shared bike project became a turning point for Matt*. Through the process, he learned that it’s not just about building something with his hands, but also about building patience, taking pride in his efforts and persisting when things get difficult.

At home, small actions also started to make a big difference. Matt* helped cook dinner and pitched in a bit more around the house, doing some chores. Showing more respect also slowly helped his relationship with his family heal.

With encouragement from his mentor, the young man also started thinking more about his future; about what he wanted to achieve, and what he was capable of, including getting a job and earning his own money.

Together they prepared his resumé, looked for job opportunities and worked on his interview skills. His mentor also supported him to get ready for the big day by shopping for a new outfit, getting a fresh haircut and building his confidence.

Matt* was successful in getting his first job and after completing his initial training, he started a new chapter defined by independence, responsibility and pride.

Reflecting on the journey, his mentor asked, “If I had said to you 12 months ago that you’d be at school and in a job, what would you have said?” Matt* replied honestly: “No way!”

In just a matter of months, the changes have been significant, with improvement seen in both his school attendance and his relationship with his mum.

The power of the right support

KIND’s mentoring approach helps for young people in contact with youth justice who may not have consistent, positive role models in their lives. It offers tailored support, connection and encouragement alongside therapeutic intervention.

With a small, dedicated team of clinicians and a mentor working closely together side by side, the program creates space for lasting change.

As Pete, KIND Mentor, explains: “It’s incredibly rewarding to support positive change in young people, and to be part of a team that works closely together to make a real difference.”

For more information on KIND, please contact Kate Melvin, DHS Senior Family Violence Clinician, KIND Program, via kate.melvin2@sa.gov.au.

*Name changed for privacy reasons